T H E M Y S T E R Y O F M O J O

Wild Enigma

Ah, the legendary Austin Powers and his mojo. I admit, I kinda had a weird, secret crush on our charismatic secret agent, oozing groovy style and irresistible charm. His mojo was more than just a magnetic force—it was like gravity in overdrive! Imagine potent energy, unshakeable confidence, and a libido that could make Siri respond with a sly giggle. (Seriously, though, if you haven't watched the movies, you're in for some cheeky fun!).  

How does mojo translate in our real and messy, unshagadelic world? Was our suave spy onto something or has its meaning evolved into something different today?

What is mojo and why does it matter?

The mojo concept originated in African and Afro-Caribbean spirituality, where magical charms, herbs, and roots were used for good luck and protection. Carrying these treasures was like having a personal lucky charm—a little something that linked you to your dreams with a burst of strong, spiritual energy. Over time, Mojo got a modern makeover. Today, it's not so much about mystical artifacts; it's about owning your charisma and becoming a magnet for positive vibes. Sign me up, baby!

Mojo goes beyond luck; it's about intention. It guides us to catch momentum and give that extra push when we need it. In my world, MOJO is all about uncovering joy in the everyday shuffle and creating those little moments that sprinkle a bit of magic into our days, and, ultimately, spice up our lives.

Make Those Moments

Ever felt the weight of waiting for the perfect moment or the stress of making every second count? Maybe you've been told not to ruin the moment. Well, here's a playful thought—it's okay to snag that 'proverbial moment' and just "Let It Go" (thank you, Frozen) Because, really, in embracing the unexpected and finding joy in the authenticity of each moment, that's where the real magic of life happens.

  • Technically, they say a moment lasts about 90 seconds. But, honestly, who's got time to clock something as slippery as a moment, right? It could be as quick as a passing thought or as drawn-out as a string of little moments that add up to something pretty cool. Sure, we've all had those cringy, sticky moments, but I'm all in for those feel-good ones—the ones that sneak a genuine smile onto our faces and make our hearts do a happy dance.

    Whether it's a microsecond or a few loops around the clock, the real magic happens when we're tuned in, fully present for the ride. I love a good party, and a reason to dress up and celebrate, but you know what really gets me going? Frocking up for the everyday gigs. No big deal, no fancy moves, just soaking in the sweet satisfaction of the now—right here, right now.

Turn Joy into a Thing

We often chase happiness, but joy is the spark in our everyday grind. Let me introduce you to Joy—a client of mine, who lived out her name on purpose, every day. Through personal challenges and health setbacks, she had every reason to call it quits, yet she turned those tough times into snapshots of triumph, finding delight in the real-life hustle. Joy is contagious and together my lovely client and I bounced off the concrete walls of my fitness studio, turning sweat into sparkles and stress into squats—the ultimate therapy session, btw;)

  • Little pockets of JOY and moments of DELIGHT can be unearthed throughout our day, bringing happiness without effort. We don't need to force it, we just need to nurture it, and it’s simpler than you might think. Some of my most treasured moments include the pure delight of nana naps, the warmth of sunshine streaming through a window, the genuine glee of popping in my AirPods, and even Christmas in April. (why wait for December, right?).

    Infusing a generous sprinkle of gratitude into our daily lives is like blending joy into our routines; it raises each moment, making it brighter and more meaningful. As we cultivate gratitude, joy naturally blossoms, and here is where our dynamic duo enters: Gratijoy! Let's turn this into a trend!

Unleash Occasions

Who doesn't love the thrill of anticipation? Celebrations usually promise joy, but let's get real, there are some that make you wish for a memory wipe. Picture this: my milestone birthday in a new country. I meticulously plotted the entire day weeks in advance with my gal pals—lunch, massages, gel nails, and, naturally, the delightful occasion of bubbles. My inner event planner was all in! Yet, it unfolded like a classic comedy of errors. A massage that left me itching, a lunch plan that spiraled into chaos, and nails that turned into a complete disaster. Stress, tears, an itchy rash—far from the fabulous soirée I envisioned. And, sadly, not a glimmer of a 'bronze' lining, let alone a silver one, popped up amid the chaos.

  • Why do occasions often bring high hopes, guilt, and letdowns?

    Culture tells us they are events to look forward to, but they also pile on immense pressure and shoulding! Why not redefine for ourselves what counts as an occasion? Instead of waiting for scheduled parties to boost our happiness, let's find joy in random fun, like impromptu dance-offs or spontaneous karaoke nights. No agenda, just good vibes!

    How about we ditch the wait for big events and celebrate the small wins in between? Toast to the little victories—like finally finding your keys or nailing a tricky parking spot. Let's make ordinary moments extraordinary! These occasions hardly ever leave us disappointed. Why? Because they're free from expectations. No pressure, no preset ideas, no letdowns. It feels like a breath of fresh air, doesn't it?

So, sweet reader—are you ready to sprinkle some mojo magic into your world? No grand plans are needed, just a readiness to embrace the messy, mundane, and magnificent of the everyday.

If you’re ready to dip your toes in mojo waters, order your copy of Don’t Mess With My Mojo.